To feel love and being loved in return, is perhaps one of the world's greatest feeling...You know it when it happens. That thing called "MAGIC," is there --- yep, where sparks fly, your eyes are so cheery, and that your smile is so genuine that it could inflict others. You turn so viral that even a smirk could spell how madly "in-love" you are.
It feels crazy to be in-love. Crazy like crazy, that you wouldn't want to mind time. You just want to spend each and every minute with that special someone --- and the hell with what the both of you are doing. What's important is that you two are together, enjoying each second, each warmth and each shower of Joy, time has blessed you both.
And what are you to do when that perfect feeling, that is just soooo right, is definitely "oh so wrong?"
My friend and I has been having this discussion this afternoon over mango juice...
I know that each one of us has their own opinion and own disposition to things that occurs...
While we were talking, I told my friend that even how happy a person could be, he/she just needs to give it up... FOR THE GREATER GOOD. Kailangan mong maging Tama...
then, ok, fine... comes this thing for "the love to one's self."
*wait. this will be continued tomorrow. i am about to leave the office.*
So what about yourself?
Your phone beeps and you are as excited as a Kid, who is about to taste his first lollipop. Who? Who? Who sent an SMS. Yes! It's him. You know you are delighted upon seeing his name on the inbox. Come 'on! do not deny it. Then you slowly flashed that devilish grin, and eventually turned into the most joyous creature. And yes... there goes those sparks again :)
No one is perfect in life and no one can take perfect decisions in
life. This happens in every situation. Let us talk about relationships.
Many a times, you like a person or fall for that person, but you know
that he is a wrong choice for you. What would you do in this situation?
Simply stop yourself from falling for Mr. wrong. And how will you do
that? Read on.
If you know that you like a guy, whose past relationship history is
not good, then you need to think again. If you know that the person you
like has many girlfriends or had many, then be cautious and stop
yourself from falling for him. Guys with such a history will repeat the
same thing with you.
The best way out is to take help of your friends. This will divert
your mind. Tell your friends that the person you like is the wrong one
for you. Seek their advice and this will help in dealing with the
situation. Your friends can urge you to get out of this situation with
support and comfort. SO this means that FRIENDS must show that they DISCOURAGE you and not the other way around.
If you know you are falling for a wrong person, then the best way out
is to listen to your instincts. Listen to your mind and you will never
take a wrong decision. Self-control is the key to get out of this
situation. And yes, Self-Control is very crucial. You have to hold on to your principles, think back on how your parents raised you, of how you see yourself with the person and if you really can stand being with that person.
Love can knock on your door at its most perfect timing. Indeed, it can bring you to Cloud Nine and paint your skies with the greatest fireworks too. But, choose to be righteous. When you say, "how about my own happiness?" You come to think again...
If you really care so much for yourself. You won't put a check-in-the-"unsure"-box, which you would have to deal with for your whole life.
And I quote my favorite line from the movie The Notebook:
"Summer romances end for all kinds of reasons. But when all is said and done, they have one thing in common: They are shooting stars-a spectacular moment of light in the heavens, a fleeting glimpse of eternity. And in a flash, they're gone..."
Don't deprive yourself from being happy. You deserve it in many ways. But be wise enough on guarding your heart and be clever enough on making your choices.
1. Pay heed to his past
2. Take advice from friends
The best way out is to take help of your friends. This will divert
your mind. Tell your friends that the person you like is the wrong one
for you. Seek their advice and this will help in dealing with the
situation. Your friends can urge you to get out of this situation with
support and comfort. SO this means that FRIENDS must show that they DISCOURAGE you and not the other way around.3. Listen to your instincts
Love can knock on your door at its most perfect timing. Indeed, it can bring you to Cloud Nine and paint your skies with the greatest fireworks too. But, choose to be righteous. When you say, "how about my own happiness?" You come to think again...
If you really care so much for yourself. You won't put a check-in-the-"unsure"-box, which you would have to deal with for your whole life.
And I quote my favorite line from the movie The Notebook:
"Summer romances end for all kinds of reasons. But when all is said and done, they have one thing in common: They are shooting stars-a spectacular moment of light in the heavens, a fleeting glimpse of eternity. And in a flash, they're gone..."
Don't deprive yourself from being happy. You deserve it in many ways. But be wise enough on guarding your heart and be clever enough on making your choices.
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